Humans are likely the most sociable animals that have ever
been, and will ever be. Together, we live in general peace; eating, living,
working; hell, some people even choose to sleep in the same bed. Not because
they have a lack of space, a lack of beds, or arctic conditions to endure, but
because they choose to. Because the idea of laying comatose alone, for just a
moment, is too daunting to swallow, too appalling to even consider. Whether you
want to admit it or not, we need, nay, crave each other desperately. Perhaps
this peculiar behavior stemmed from a Darwinist process, a slowly acquired
understanding that unity equals strength. Or perhaps there lies deep mystical
connection between us kindred spirits, some God, some energy, some
indescribable force that brings us together, that makes us want to unite.
Despite what you believe, in others, we see ourselves. In
their words, in their expressions, in their gasping laughs, in their charming
smiles, in their quivering terror, in their delightful anecdotes, we catch
glimpses, shadows, silhouettes of ourselves. We try desperately to connect, to grasp
life from different hands, to see through infant eyes once more. But what is it
all for? Humans need each other so fiercely that isolation drives most to
madness, if not a swaying noose. Perhaps
we connect selfishly in a panicked whimper, frantically trying to convince
ourselves that the Earth is not a cold dead place. That life is not meaningless
and we won’t depart as we entered; alone, bloodied, wailing.
Perhaps this is so. And perhaps, it’s absolutely wrong.
I liked the way you described the way we sometimes view the social life in comparison to that of "infants' eyes." Sometimes it makes me think that the child's eyes are often the ones that are the more kinder, the more accepting of other people. Without so much caution in our beings, we virtually long to befriend anyone, regardless of who they might be. It often makes me wish that there would be more people in this world who'd still think that way, being open to befriend another person regardless of what they look like, what they do, or where they're from. If that were the case, then loneliness could almost be practically eradicated from this world.
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